Never would I have imagined it so life changing.
My One Word is an alternative to a New Year’s resolution. It’s a Bible Study, but only sort of. You begin by asking Jesus for a single word that would focus on a lasting change for your life. Search the Bible for verses that allude to that word and what he wants you learn from it. What makes it so doable is, it’s just one word/one change.
January has begun, but it’s not too late for you to dive in.
The word that surfaced for me was ‘relinquish.’ I had considered other words, ‘submit’ and ‘surrender.’ But they didn’t lead me to where Jesus was having me focus. Submit was something I already do with my husband. Surrender, to me, means giving up. Relinquish, on the other hand, means to willfully release.
That is an ongoing process in my life.
Over time it’s taken on differing forms. My first wrestling match was selling my brass bed. We were down-sizing. I was the only one who liked it and my family couldn’t understand why I loved it so much. At the time I couldn’t put words to it, but I can now. That dumb bed was one of the few things in our home that reflected my decorating taste. Tears flowed.
Sometime later I had cataract surgery. I was convinced I’d end up blind. Relinquishing sight, when you are a quilter and supposedly writing a God-ordained book, this just cannot be. Fear reigned. Needlessly. Isn’t that true of so many of our fears? They never come to be.
Selling my grandmother’s enamel kitchen table was another opportunity to relinquish. As a child, my memories recalled me sitting on a step stool eating her raisin bread, picking out the raisins, eating the frosting on top and leaving the bread. Yes, I was chastised. But it did no good.
We sold it to a young family that was thrilled to get it. Their home is all vintage thirties, all they were missing was an enamel table. It continues to be cherished, but not at my house.
I come from a family of savers. When my dad was moving he divided up his collection of dried up paintbrushes between my husband and brother. Our allotment helped fill the trash bin.
Generations before me collected a vast amount of possibly useful things. Upon going through my aunt’s estate after her death, we came across an envelope. Written on it was, ‘For poverty living.’ Inside it was a large needle and a six-inch string. One can expect that thinking when you have survived a depression.
Moving their stuff out of my way was forever driving me nuts. Keep in mind, they had all passed away. This was only perpetuating the pack-rat lifestyle I hated.
This is my history. Mental battles run rampant as I dispose of what my ancestors diligently spent their lifetime saving. Just in case. My daughter is helping me let go, I mean relinquish.
But to dispose of something……what if sometime down the road I might need it?
I keep reminding myself none of it will be coming with me to my eternal home. By then, there will be no need!